America, it’s time for a national time out. Some mornings, my kids and I are cranky. We snap at each other. We judge. We jump to conclusions and we fight. The kids throw things. I yell. One child cries and the other child points fingers. On those mornings, we have learned to restart the day. … Continued
Christine B. Whelan
Dr. Christine B. Whelan is a author, speaker and professor. She is the author of Generation WTF: From "What the &%$#?" to a Wise, Tenacious & Fearless You, Marry Smart: The Intelligent Woman's Guide to True Love, Why Smart Men Marry Smart Women, and currently is under contract for a book helping young-adults identify and live a purposeful life.
Dr. Whelan is a visiting assistant professor in the Sociology Department at the University of Pittsburgh. She earned a masters and doctorate from the University of Oxford and has held teaching positions at Princeton University and the University of Iowa. She has been published in The Wall Street Journal, The Washington Post and The New York Times, among other national outlets. She has appeared live on television programs and radio programs across the nation.
She and her husband, Peter, live and work in Pittsburgh with their dictator cats, Chairman Meow and Evita Purrron, and their daughter, Eleanor.
Websites: http://www.christinewhelan.com and http://www.generationwtf.com
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In a new national survey, 18-24-year-olds report that having a clear purpose in life is a big part of being a “real” adult. The problem is, most young people don’t feel like they’ve found that sense of purpose. If you’re graduating from college this month, congratulations. After you toss your cap in the air and … Continued
According to new national survey data, the #1 advice that older adults would share with their twenty-year-old self is this: make sure you know your purpose before making big decisions. This commencement season, here’s a primer on how to talk purpose with your graduate: Top 5 Things to Say to the New Graduate Ask open-ended … Continued
‘Tis the season for making resolutions—and if you’re like millions of Americans, you’ve got your list of things you’d like to change about yourself. Every year, millions of folks talk about New Year’s Resolutions . . . and fail to change much of anything about themselves. Why? Here’s a dose of Resolutions Reality to start … Continued
Checking my email last night before bed, I found an email referring to the “biggest moon of the year.” Since my daughter and I had been enjoying the supermoon of the last few days, I (naively) clicked on the email… only to come face-to-face with a rear end mooning me. We live down the street … Continued
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